I have just spent a full and inspiring week in Prague. Reconnecting with the city, with my friends, family… Old places, new faces, new inspiration, re-discovering Czech culture, observing the unfolding story of the dearest country to my heart. Carefully listening to stories from different people to put together a myriad of tiny puzzle pieces to create a picture of my country exactly 20 years after the ‘velvet’ revolution of 1989…
What did I find? First about the past… It is fascinating to fully realize how my country and its culture has been building up. Long history of not being independent (e.g. Austro-Hungarian Empire, Soviet occupation, etc.), unsuccessful history of fighting for what we believed in, being handed and sacrificied for the seeming well-being of Europe. All these are still hard wired in our DNA, Czech people are afraid to be proud, afraid to stand for something, afraid to fight for things bigger than themselves. The 40 years of communism was a fascinating story too… Economic degradation (from one of the strongest European economies before the 2nd World War to old and obsolete in 89), radical collectivization of properties and strong desire to squish any individual expression for the next 40 years, punitive political government and tremendous blow to personal confidence, relationships between people and their ability and will to realize their potential.
Much was written and spoken about the past. Not everything was so difficult and in fact, as we did not know otherwise, we were able to lead quite happy lives… For many, life was more secure and convenient than the tyring to get by in the competitive environment of today. Healthy society is the one that is able to well balance individualism with collective. This applies to culture, political systems, economy, in fact it spans all across the board. Society that combines working towards a common goal with adequate opportunities and recognition for individual excellence. In Czechoslovakia,during the 40 years before 1989, the individualistic element was artificially held back, almost like a lid on a pot full of hot steam. No private ownership, entrepreneurship, no recognition for individual excellence (in fact people would typically rather get punished for being exceptional).
After the year 1989, the past 20 years have seen the lid removed and the country has gone through a tremendous expression of the individualistic values, beliefs and corresponding systems and activities. I remember that in the early 90’s almost every person I met was a rapidly starting entrepreneur. The hunger for more, better, richer, the desire to express, compete, outsmart and outperform was (and is) huge. The early years were very raw with the absence of proper collective systems to hold it all together (e.g. law system was gradually being created from scratch and was hardly able to keep-up with the speed of innovation from people thirsty to gain personal wealth), but gradually the system has stabilized. What happened in many countries very gradually, happened in Czech Republic very abruptly and quickly. As if to confirm the evolutionary path of other countries, after freedom was given to the individualistic worlview, it quickly developed to dominate the scene.
So what about my country in 2009? Few observations…
- With previous collective systems absent (Czech Republic has comparatively very low rate of religious people, the government has a very bad reputation partially due to the past, partially due to recent events, law and order still far away from being respected as it is in some other European countries) and new collective systems still not fully present (e.g. Democracy based on values, compassion and collective principles), the above described individualistic paradigm is currently dominating the events in an unhealthy way…
- Many people I met were very negative in their view of the world, over-inflating all the difficulties and things that do not work while at the same time completely over-looking things that they can be proud of. Czech people often pride themselves in ‘realism’ and practicality and while this is indeed one of the biggest gifts we can ‘export’ abroad to benefit other countries, it is also often a trap that shuts down any inspiration, passion or sense of possibility. It is as if events of past century completely squished Czech confidence in ourselves, in our nation, in what we can bring to the global family. While we are very confident when speaking about matters in our country, when lifting our eyes beyond our borders somehow the confidence dissapears…
- I also saw an exciting side of my country. I met people who are bringing new things, who are discovering what they stand for. I saw signs of the new, of values coming in, of inspiration being awakened of better things to come…
Where will my country go in the years to come? I believe it fundamentally depends on our ability to…
- Allow ourselves to dream again – we had few big dreams in the past and they did not work out well. But they are things from the past and we can not keep bringing them into our future all the time. Czech Republic needs people with inspiration, with big dreams that will move the country forward. What is our contribution to Europe? What do we want it to be? What role do we want to play in the world? Which skills will we offer for the benefit of humanity? We are very good in making things happen but at the moment we are missing big and inspiring dreams that will give us generative direction…
- Strengten the development of a deeper collective frame – examples from other countries in Europe that had much more time to grow and develop in a healthy and ‘unblocked’ way could inspire our future. Building value-based frame to support our governing and individualistic systems. Democracy is a frame, it’s a way of governing and gives individuals huge opportunity for self-realization and success. At the same time however, it will never be successful if the individualistic drive it allows, remains unbalanced with healthy level of empathy, value-driven leadership, compassion and social systems. The highly developed 3rd sector in other European countries and a history of healthy democracy are showing us that it is just a matter of time before this happens…
- Manage ourselves and our leadership- the future of our country will belong to people who are able to make a realistic assessment of what is happening around and then get inspired with what is possible. There is no power in complaning all the time and people are getting tired of it. We are ready for a success story, we are ready for proving what we can do. I believe people who realize this will be the ones rebuilding my country…
Over the past week, I have realized how much I have walked since I the times I was living home. The past 3 years have been so full of experiences, connections and wisdom. I have also realized how much I have to give and how my experiences will be helpful for me in supporting my country. There are many things waiting for us on a global scale. Yet it always feels special to do things for your ‘home’ country, it is as if it counts twice for me
My country is no different to any other in the kind of leadership it requires at the moment. Leadership that is able to dream, get inspired and make a difference. There is no scale or judgment as long as it is happening. Like people in my country, the people all around the world are also tired of constant exposure to all the negative aspects of our present, tired of feeling guilty about our past, tired of not seeing any possibility for our future…
It is time to dream, it is time to act. It is time to connect, empower and support every person out there who is committed to stop complaining and start building our future… In my beautiful country as much as in yours…